Psychologists say we tend to exaggerate how good we are, how nice or how beautiful we are. Exaggerating your good behavior sometimes affects how you scrutinize and truly see yourself.
Sometimes you are the toxic person in your relationship.
Sometimes you are the mean one,the negative one.
Sometimes the problem is you.
Sometimes we blame others for our own shame, run away and avoid taking responsibility.
Sometimes we play the victim, even though we are the offender.
Sometimes we try to justify our actions.
Sometimes you are the cause of your own problems
And that makes you human.
We all fall short one way or the other,
Check yourself, keep on checking yourself, own and learn from your mistakes.
When i was in college, i knew i wasn’t very emotional but i did not know how cold i could sometimes be. I was sometimes mean to friends and siblings without realizing it. Recently i read an argument i had with my friend years ago via Facebook messenger and it made me cringe. She was trying to be nice and i was mean.I understood better why we were no longer friends and saw how i also contributed to us falling out.I had to send a message apologizing to her and we laughed about it.
Alhamdulillah for growth.
Continue to strive